If you suspect there is an affair, you're better off not saying anything until you have proof. If there is an affair (or one is developing), all you will do is show them they have to be more careful in hiding it.
Once you have definite proof, then you lay down the law.
If he's just telling tales or getting advice, then don't worry about it.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
