OK, so I went over the phone records again for the millionth time. It updates every 24 hours for the previous days calls.

He told me he has been talking to someone about our relationship and getting advice on things. He would not tell me who it was because he didn't want me to be mad at him.

I found out a few days ago he has been talking to my sister once a night for a few nights (all that I checked). When I confronted her about it she said she was making sure he was going to take care of the kids if he left. She is a single mother of three and was concerned for my two.

Now I am looking and they talk several times a day. She is calling him on her work cell # so thinking I wouldn't recognize it. The calls last as little as 5 min to as much as 35 min.

I don't know what to do. Do I confront her again about what they are talking about? No doubt she is running to him telling him everything I am saying and doing.

What do I do??


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month