Hi hon, I thought I would chime in on this one since Ive been dark for a few weeks now. My sitch is different, but going dark is the same principal. You got some great advice here. Going dark isnt about him , its about you. As far as Ive been able to see in ur sitch its getting results. Its ok for him to be upset. Keep the topics of conv OFF ur R and "temp-checking" ( love that term)
Also remember it takes TIME! Was 4 weeks almost to the day b4 I got any word from my h and his attitude was much different than b4. The real win for me wasnt so much his contact, because that was a big one, but the fact that I didnt completely fall apart when he did. Fluttery yes, fall apart, no. This is for YOU YOU YOU. Looking for signs or expecting results isnt going to help you. GAL, stop the pursuit and take care of yourself. He'll notice believe me.
