You are very right, trying to figure out his thoughts is a waste of time and energy. He hasn't gone and filed for divorce or even brought it up for a month or so. Another thing is he likes to post on his facebook page lyrics of songs that he is gearing towards me about how his life stinks etc... How am I suppose to respond to that? Yesterday he posted lyrics to Breaking Benjamin- Without You, I have no idea how to take that, as far as those lyrics go??? I am so confused, thank you guys for all your help with this.