I did tell him about a week and a half ago that this wasn't working for me and that we needed to figure out something as far as what we would do next with our house etc... Funny thing is he never talked about it after that and kind of acted like I never said anything about it???
Because you threw him a curveball. Well done.
Originally Posted By: Katie
Which makes me wonder if he was upset that I didn't care about saving the marriage anymore??? I could be wrong though.
You probably are.
Let him tell you what he's thinking, and then only believe the 1% that will be backed up by action. (For example, when he files for divorce, then you know he is serious.)
Trying to mind-read is ultimately unproductive, because his thoughts and feelings are in turmoil. He doesn't know how he feels, so there's no way you can predict or guess.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
