Originally Posted By: praying_in_GA
As far as I know there is no other woman. To be honest, I believe him. It may bite me in the bottom one day, but for now I do believe him.


Just keep in mind that the first rule of cheating on your spouse is that "cheaters lie".

I'm not saying you're wrong to want to trust him -- you married him with the expectation that you both would put other people behind you -- but don't let yourself get blindsided.

Originally Posted By: praying_in_GA
Simply put, I am very hard to live with due to my temper. I take it out on him. Over time it wore him down so that he doesn't want to be around it anymore. He thought that after we married I would be so happy those anger/temper problems would disappear.


What have you been doing to address this? It seems like if you can overcome your anger issues, you will remove a large part of why he wants to go.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."