I'm on eggshells today. Will my W agree to go to counseling on Wed night? If she doesn't, will she file? Will she decide to do neither?

I am so tired of all of this; but I did apologize to her for arguing. I told her I promised I wouldn't do it, and then I did. The result is always negative. I won't do it again, even if she begs me to fight; unless we are in a counseling office.

I'm meeting a mentor of mine in 20 minutes who has provided some pretty good advice to this point. That will help.

Counseling tomorrow with our kids; counseling tomorrow for me and MAYBE counseling for my wife and I. That one is her call though.


M: 33
W: 31
D: 11, 6; S:2
M: 11y T:15y (H.S. Sweethearts)
Seperated: 8/30/09
Met with Divorce Mediator 10/5/09
Divorce papers filed 11/13/09