I understand. I know I shouldn't have asked but I feel like if I completly ignore him he will think I don't care at all and see that this relationship isn't worth it. If I were in his shoes I would be upset if 2 weeks went by and he never asked me how I was when I looked upset? Maybe I am completly off base here. I am new to this. How do I know if it is working? He doesn't kiss me, this last weekend though, I was laying in bed and tired and he asked me what was wrong in a very nice way. I haven't heard him ask me that in forever. Then he says he feels the same way he did 3 months ago????