Hey Everyone,

Not much new spouse wise last night. As we are in the middle of packing and moving she kept saying she wanted to give some furniture of a friend of her's kid.

That really flustered me for some reason.

What I am struggling with is the language she uses. She keeps talking as if there is a future together or what is going to happen here and there.

Anyways I told her not to give any furniture away as if she goes through with her plan I will not be in a position to buy new stuff.

That whole conversation really threw me off my game. I really felt like whining and asking if she thought she might change her mind.

I didn't but it was really hard.

Struggled yesterday and it seem to show. Noticed she seemed to have suttle power over me.

Any words of wisdom?