Beware of Greek corn! I have no idea what that means....
After reading your posts regarding what I called an obssesion, I began to think of my XW's indiscretions and lies and her overall lack of judgement during what i like to call her euphoric time. I guess I decided to put it in a compartment somewhere deep in my brain and go there very rarely and for short (very short) periods. Mind you I had no pictures or e-mails so maybe it is easier to compartmentalize. What I am saying is in order for you to have any chance you need to remove the clutter. It won't be easy (I understand....I got a taste of it with myself yesterday as I was working myself up). You started your long monologue post with "I got what I wanted" you got to put it out there and he heard and still I sense it is not enough for you. I do not know what will be enough....meeting her...slapping her......arm wrestling her.... What I do know is that you are letting her affect you. She has made her way into your psyche. You need to get her out of there and then working on regaining confidence in your husband. A tall order no doubt. I can't even begin to offer any advice on how to do that Maria.
