W and I chatted cordially this morning for about 30 minutes. Kept it upbeat and happy. Filled her in on some details of my trip to see my friends. She admitted that she felt a tinge of jealousy that I got to go see them (they were very close friends with her as well. One even lived with us for several years), but that she knew that I needed the support of my "buds" and was glad I was able to spend some time alone with them. However, she said it gave her a taste of what I've been feeling this past year when I've been excluded from activities with her/our friends.

She said she applied for 4 different jobs yesterday, and had one interview. She seems determined to not let this week slip by without making serious attempts at job hunting.

W mentioned that she goes back for her 3rd visit with her C this morning. I know that Cs typically get patients to focus on themselves and their well-being/happiness, but I'm hopeful that C also takes her family into consideration and doesn't approach things from a anti-marriage stance.

When I left, W stood up and asked me for a hug/kiss. I reciprocated. As we were hugging, she told me "You know I really DO love you." I told her ILY back. Is it following the guidelines to say it back, as long as I'm not the one initiating it?

Last edited by CountingCrows; 11/10/09 02:51 PM.
Me 45 WAW 36
S8
T 15 M 12
Multiple PA's since 6/07
W moved out 10/25/09
I filed D 12/29/09
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