stbxH is very nice since Saturday night. I mean it. I am not making it up. Calls me, keeps the conversation going with remarks such as "dont you have anything to say?" forcing me to talk to him, tells me his wherebaouts without me asking him, planning for the immediate future- asked me to go to the game again on Sat (no fear of bumping into anyone I guess), go out with a famous player and his wife that he works with next week- was hugging and kissing me all the time he ws with us on Sunday etc etc.
Since the work issue has been hot the last couple of days, he has been telling me about it and exlaining details to me, reporting convos with the management etc. I was against the original "group resignation" and had discussed my perception of things. Last night, he called and said he now understands what I was telling him...
So, H,(yes H) is not caving, back pedalling or showing any second thoughts. I AM the problem now. My insecurities and my obsession.
And yes Frank, not all marriages can or should be saved. I agree. I think mine could and I am pondering on should. K
PS My bgf visited on Sunday afternoon after H was gone. She told me in detail the convo they had after I had found out. He was crying, telling her, I am the woman of his life and that he loves me and thinks he lost me (back then August 6th). Something in the exact expression, she had with held from me then, to protect me- made me feel all fuzzy inside.
Later and yesterday, the snakes creeped back in, and I got paranoid.
