Your wife seems to certainly have her issues, but she isn't here, you are. It seems to me she has given you an important piece of information. She isn't attracted to you at your present weight. Now that is a valid and useful statement. We should try do do the best with what we have to be attractive to our spouses.
What makes no sence to me is why she wasn't attraced to you when you lost all the weight. Perhaps you can remind her what happened the last time you lost weight . . . she wasn't happy either. And considering that fact you don't know why you should bother.
What do you find of value with this woman and why do you want her in your life?
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .
