Well, she replied and it was a mass of vitriol and bile. She was very defensive. I repeated my question on what was *she* willing to do. I set firm boundaries on HerGayMaleFriend. I didn't rise to her bait. I listened. I validated.
She has acres of things that I need to change, but very little to say about her.
SF
SF, I RARELY say this on this forum, and it is obviously a pro-marriage board, but my advice to you would be to RUN VERY FAST.