Thanks Jeff. I intend to do just what you posted. It's funny, though. Everyday, at some point, I am running 'scripts' through my mind.....things I would say in a court. I am trying to not let it consume me.
There IS a possibility that the judge will try and 'force' a settlement, but, knowing STBXW, she enjoys using the legal system against me: -filed a false police report -filed 2 orders of protection -strung out a hearing with 2 adjournments only to get what SHOULD have been agreed to earlier -pushing trial
She has restarted taking the kids to family counseling. The kids have been good with me on my time. Not sure if this is because SHE is having difficulty with them or she is trying to pin something on me.
D6 is doing well again on medication. I keep in touch with school officials by email. She is going to have a 'para'...someone to watch her in school from a distance because of her recent seizures.
I ordered a netbook so I can get the typing done. She is openly hostile to me of late. Tells me NOTHING about kids doc appts, results, etc. I text her to ask results or call/email everyone.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;