Fortunately, I start IC tomorrow too. Good timing. Don't know if it even makes sense or if H would even go to the next MC appt. scheduled for Friday. I guess he was doing that for show?
Probably.
IC = good.
MC = probably a waste of time (and money??) when there's an active affair going on. I wouldn't bother, UNLESS it were to go, and make a proactive announcement at the beginning of the session recapping what your H told you, and that "I have decided that I am no longer willing to waste my time, nor my family's resources (not sure if your MC is covered by insurance or not?) on marriage counseling as long as my husband is having an affair, lying to everyone about it, including you, our counselor. I do want to thank you for trying to help us, tho. I'll leave the two of you to discuss things, if you care to."
