It seems to be working.... sometimes #2

[sandycay]

KJ

That's pretty much how I act all the time.... so it'sn ot working.


Anyway, I have a thread over in seperating... I am moving over there... although I probably need to be in MLC board, I started out in seperated so I will go back there now.

[sandycay]

He moved out yesterday, gave me a phone call after he had done that. So he is gone.

[mindfull]

Sandy... what's happened since he moved out? Are you doing ok? How about your kids?

[patpat]

Sandy,

Don't leave your H. He does not love her. She is just a thought. Set a new boundary - "no talking about the OW". Eventually, this fantasy will disappear. You, by listening, are helping him to keep it alive. Kill it now. In time, both of you will be all the better for it.

You know what they say, "that which does not kill us only makes us stronger".

He is home now. Isn't that what you wanted. Now, you should take the time to fine out what he wants and you become the fantasy. Let your imagination run wild... make him desire you and you alone. Have fun with it!!!

Also, get your H involved in church. Bible studies etc....

God has a way of healing our wounds.

Good Luck with the surgery!

[sandycay]

uumm my new thread is in seperating (again)

I have never left my H... he has left me twice. He sat it a church a year ago professing his love for me in front of 50 people in our class.

Mindfull.... I over in Separated now. Catch up over there if you got nothing better to do. H is spiraling down as dark of hole as he did the first time.

Toot Toot

there he goes driving that crazy train
Me? I just sit on the curb and wave as it drives right on by anymore.
He's turned into a major A-hole regarding our kids...