Hi Rocked Oh you poor lamb - I really DO feel your pain. I gasped as I read about bomb 2. No wonder your pastor dropped everything to come to you. Good that he did. Now you know what you are dealing with.
I totally agree with Puppy's advice - no explanations are warranted from you and nor should your H expect any. However, that said, go check my thread in regard what my C said to me this evening - then come back and tell us what happens at your own C session. I truly hope that it goes well for you.
(((Rocked)))
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"