A nasty shock even when you do prepare yourself for the possibility, interesting that OW faced up to your pastor!
Just as Puppy said you are entitled to take your time to think through your thoughts and organise them, let him swing around on his rope for a while and dont let him pressurise you into keeping any secrets for him, he might think he loves her and all that but he's sure going to feel the need to control his embarrassment factor at being caught! This time is now yours hun, take it slowly and know we are all here with hugs and listening ears!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
