Coping with Bi-Polar WAW

[bluerain]

The you deserve better than me etc. is pretty typical, its just a line! It sounds like she wants to come home, so now you need to follow through with your GALing, 180's and rope dropping. I was able to get the DB books from my local library. Maybe you could get at least a little head start. I think that you are going to get some good advice here, and make sure that you follow it. Even if its counterintuitive- do it!

I think that first and foremost, she needs to stop talking to the OM. Is this something that you can really deal with? I think that its a recipe for failure personally. And if she really wants to make this work, it shouldnt be a tough choice for her to make. Her family, or the man that she will readily admit is a sleazeball.