Im sorry spin free, Im a little confused, you asked her to lose weight, or she asked you? In the email that you told us about, were you saying that to her, or quoting her?

I wonder if you think that this maybe is really about a different issue and this is just what shes choosing to be vocal about. It seems like its about something else, esp. since she was giving you a hard time even when you did lose weight. Think hard now, is there anything else going on?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...