You're not wrong. She sounds like a controlling b*tch, the way you describe it.
Are you sure there's not something else you're not telling us??
Puppy
I'm not perfect. I tend to leave my clothes in the floor. I've left the dishes too many times. I've spent too much time on work/school. I'm really willing to do 50% to make this work, but I just CAN'T/WON'T give her control of this. It is the first thing in almost 18 years of marriage that just immediately slapped me in the face and said, "I'm a deal breaker, nice to meet you."
Her best friends describe her as a scary beeyotch.
