PS- the house is gorgeous- it really shows the care you took with it.
If God never gives us more than we can handle, then He must truly think that all of us on this forum possess super strength and resources!
I concur on the house. It is lovely. I love CT, my H is from CT. Always thought we'd move there someday so our boys could be closer to family.
As for God not giving us more than we can handle, I always comment in my talks in the shower every morning "I am not as strong as you think, maybe ease up on me a bit." But I know I am here for a reason.
While looking at your house, a few things stuck out, the two green lawn chairs peeking through the window, the walkways, the stone wall, and the sign above one of your doorways that read "It is what it is." Doesn't that just say it all in one little ball of wax?!?! I answer a lot of what is happening inside of me at any given moment with that statement- "It sure as heck is what it dingdang is!!!
Oh, and Gardener, I just KNOW that your retreat next year will show that you have found some well-deserved peace. You deserve it, my friend.
BIM
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
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