BTW, How exactly did you FAIL as a Stander? Because you talked to a girl at a bar. Please stop the pity parties already. Why do you need this attention?
Because it works? He's gotten over 80 posts to his thread today.
He appreciates everyone's analysis of his situation, thanks them for their responses, then he goes and does whatever he damn well wants. Lather, rinse, repeat.
You can keep trying to engage with him if you want. Me, I see plenty of other people who need help who might actually listen.
Then go and help them and stop putting yourself through this agony. Really. Nothing to see here. Move along.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.