Can I save my marriage?

[motherof3]

Wow. Took me awhile to catch up on your thread Brit.

I hope Trent got over his headache.

You sound just like I did about three weeks ago. Then I made a conscious decision to start focusing on me with a 'who cares what H is doing right now' attitude. I can't control him, but I can certainly control me. Sometimes it is hard for me to follow my own advice. But when I fall off I get right back on and try again.

The others are right. Reach out to your friends. Don't lock yourself up in the house all by yourself. Meet someone for coffee. Take a walk with a neighbor. Take a class. Do something you always wanted to do but haven't yet. Don't get me wrong, alone time is also a good chance to reflect, but you also need to start GALing too. Go socialize and have some fun.

I would also like to know the 3 things your H has to offer. In addition, what color are you going to paint?