Have you asked the C if the bi-polar could push a person into an A? I would like to know myself.
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I decided to stick by her this whole time with her emotional baggage. Most of the M, she's been emotionally detached and I've been chasing her. I've confronted her several times about it, and she's promised it wasn't me that she just needed time to work through her depression issues. I now suspect that I was just there to take care of her.
Oh my ....how sad you must feel. But surely there were a few good times, wasn't there?
Did you know she was bi-polar before you M her? I wonder if she was in a manic stage when she had the other A's.
If it were most women, I would say she is just getting more sneaky about her A if you have confronted her. I simply don't know enough about bi-polar to know if her conscious would even bother her to the point of "giving up" this easily. With most WAW's who are in an EA....they are too hooked on the false brain chemicals of the A and nothing you say affects them very much.
When you spoke of her being detached b/c of her depression and that you had done the chasing, did you feel that you had to do that to keep from losing her into that dark pit of depression....or was it to try to keep the family held together the best you could?
Sounds like you have had your share of hard times where she is concerned. Sure wish somebody could convince her to get back on her meds. Do the children have any influence with her?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
