I'm sorry today was such a downer for you- I hope tomorrow is better! Maybe you should still write that letter to yourself. When you open it this time next year, it could show you how far you've come from the pain you felt today. Just an idea...
I'm glad you were able to talk to your SIL, and I hope that helped to let her in. And I'm sorry to hear about your S's situation. When it rains, it pours, huh? But I've heard that God doesn't give us more than we can handle. (It may not seem like it at the time, but that's what I've heard..) Your family is really lucky to have such a great guy like you, even if your W doesn't realize it, it sounds like the others do. Take care-
Hugs, Bunny
PS- the house is gorgeous- it really shows the care you took with it.
Thank you, Bunny. And you're right, now would be the perfect time to write a letter to Gardener 2010, not the worst time like I thought yesterday.
If God never gives us more than we can handle, then He must truly think that all of us on this forum possess super strength and resources!
I don't remember if I went over to check up on your sitch earlier today So many threads/people (more and more each day), so little time. Think I did. I'll double check later. Hope all is well.
Keep going.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac