Don't fear her anger. Expect it and be prepared for it. She needs to see a man who shows strength and won't be used as a doormat.
If she is in an EA with OM (and sounds as if she is) then she will have little respect or admiration for you as long as you try to "make her happy".
Thanks. This is what I'm fighting with right now; I think our pattern has been that I've been taking care of her this entire time, and now it makes me weak. Your words help; I can prepare for her anger that's for sure. I don't do so well when I'm surprised.
As to OM/EA, I'm less sure that it's still going on. There don't appear to be any more phone calls. Today she stopped hiding her cell phone. Of course, she could have got another phone, but it doesn't seem like it. She seems more occupied with her new girlfriends. I'm really trying not to care so much what she does anymore anyway.
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