That is co-dependant thinking. He should be worried about losing you because you have SO much to offer.
What he said! You need to start thinking of yourself as someone to be wanted and desired. It's his loss if he lets you go.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement