You have only been separated for 6 weeks. Keep DB'ing. GAL...Do not worry about what he is doing, worry about what you are doing. Make a plan for yourself. I was doing the same thing until I realized that no matter what I wold be okay. You are not D yet or even in the process...so hang in there, it is not too late to turn this around! Work on yourself. Who care what he says or thinks..this is about you. That is co-dependant thinking. He should be worried about losing you because you have SO much to offer.