I know we're not supposed to mind read, but felt I needed to "back up" my statements above.
Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix
She told me that she wants to be back by Xmas.
WAW translator: Xmas is holiday time. College is closed. I won't need OM to drive me around anymore, so I'll go home for a while to keep G&T happy until college opens again then be on my merry way.
Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix
She did not think that she would still be at her brothers and that she thought she would have been back by now.
Huh? Then where is the OM going to stay? Remember she BEGGED him no to leave her a few days ago. WAW translator: Got to get G&T back in line.
Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix
She says she can see and likes the changes in me. She asked for me to be utterly truthful and asked me if I had sought legal advice. She seemed to be very worried that I had gotten legal advice.
WAW translator: Has G&T finally had enough of my crappy behavior? Is he going to get rid of me and ruin my future plans?
Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix
She gave me a big, long, strong hug when she left and held my hand.
WAW translator: Bingo! Mission accomplished. He's got his hopes up again.
In other words, without any commitment made on her part she has you back under her thumb. I'm truly sorry G&T but I don't see anything mentioned of where she intends to truly reconcile with you.
To get her back you're going to have to keep doing what works.