Hey Trent -

I noticed your posts over on K4D's thread and saw you were from Oregon. Your situation sounds very hopefull right now. And you have your head on straight in having patience to wait this out while improving yourself for yourself.

One good book I read early on (besides DB and DR) was called Walk Out Woman by Dr Steve Stephens who has a Christian based marriage counseling practice in the Portland area:

http://www.drstevestephens.com/

Also, are you aware that Retrouvaille has couples weekends in Mount Angel?

It still may be too early on to be talking too much about MC, but I just wanted to let you know of some nearby ideas.