Hi, glad you found your way over to our community. There are some wonderful people here and you'll discover that they will give you the advice you "need" to hear more than just stuff you "want" to hear. It's kind of hard to take, at times, but if you really want to DB this M, then you'll be strong and take the advice and do the work.
Have you completed the DR book yet? You need to as quickly as possible so you will know how this all works.
It is so important to take good care of yourself. I saw something on TV that showed how going without sleep was so harmful to our bodies. I hope you will do something that would help you sleep. If nothing else, ask for somebody to keep you children a night or two so you can take some over-the -counter sleep aids and get a good night sleep.
Okay, now I'm going to say something that you won't want to hear, but I hope you will think about it. If your H cannot give you a reason other than he needs some space to think things out, or b/c he's going through this "thing"... then I hope you are braced, b/c more than likely you are going to be hit with something huge. Men usually don't decide to leave their family to just think about things......usually there is another woman involved somewhere.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
