Puppy, Awoken also posted that he's moved out of the marital bed(room). I think he should move back in immediately. Thoughts?
This is one of those very few topics on the forum that will elicit 100% consensus opinion:
DO NOT MOVE OUT OF THE MARITAL BED.
If she's uncomfortable with you there, validate, and calmly suggest that she sleep somewhere else ("I understand; maybe you should move to the guest room. This is my bed, and I've done nothing wrong, and I have decided that I'd like to sleep here.")
If she protests, saying that you changed your mind, calmly say "Yes, I changed my mind."
Puppy
Hmmm, no baricade; but she locks the door.
Here's what I've already done (before I realized my mistake). I moved all my stuff out of my closet, and exchanged it with her craft stuff in the guest room closet. My dresser is still in the master bedroom and my bathroom stuff is still in the master bathroom, but she keeps pressing me to move and I've refused saying I still consider it our room.
I'm gonna move my stuff back in; just not sure when is the best time.
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