BTW, How exactly did you FAIL as a Stander? Because you talked to a girl at a bar. Please stop the pity parties already. Why do you need this attention?
Because it works? He's gotten over 80 posts to his thread today.
He appreciates everyone's analysis of his situation, thanks them for their responses, then he goes and does whatever he damn well wants. Lather, rinse, repeat.
You can keep trying to engage with him if you want. Me, I see plenty of other people who need help who might actually listen.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
