He is chosing his job over his family.......again.
He thinks you should just be able to go back to what it was before...comfortable...not facing any of his actions.
You are afraid you are going to end up in the same situation again...working your tail off to restore your M while your H sits by idly and watches you tie yourself in knots while giving no effort.
Can anyone else say 'one sided R'?
Maria, sweetheart, step back, breathe, don't react yet, but be very watchful.
First step....NO MORE R TALK AT ALL! Period! I think it's driving him back into a hole. At this point he has to come to you and if he choses not to then you have an answer to your questions of his willingness to work.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
