"You are not a reliable father," "You are ruining our children," "Don't be surprised when your children end up resenting and hating you." "You have ended up just like your father."
Personal attacks. not productive.
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I have to act as if his sh*t doesn't bother me
You want a solution of do you want to stand neck deep in it for the rest of your life?
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I have to stop the nagging and bringing things up when they are done.
So how is this "done"? It's still bothering you and if he does it again you can't say anything because you will have validated it as normal by allowing it to happen.
read up on "personal boundaries"
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
