Hear hear John! K.. how did I guess!? Mars is in Leo, dont know what else is going on, but people have been getting 'worked up' all day, frustrated, reacting, overreacting, impatient and downright confrontational.
Relax.. you know, its ok to feel things but you dont always have to act on every emotion! Sit on your hands. Eat a piece of fruit. Watch a comedy etc. I really think you are giving this woman too much power, but what this is, is grief maybe you are in the anger phase!? IMHO, you are not acting out of strength if you ring and tell him I cant do this, you would be acting out of fear.
What are you afraid of? Whats stopping you surrendering? (not saying you should, just asking) xxx
