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That way, it doesn't become an issue of whether or not you are trying to ignore him specifically.


What difference does it make if it comes across as ignoring him. I would think that would be good in that he realizes she isn't making him priority #1 anymore. If it doesn't have to do with the kids, I see no reason to have to reply if she doesn't want to reguardless of what he will think of it. Jolt him a little. Don't stop the rest of your text life to make an excuse for not talking to him.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...