I don't think he is hitting on you exactly. I think he is trying to humiliate you and sexualize the context -- testing you to see how vulnerable and hungry for male contact you are. It is just a gross thing to do. It is not at all "flirty." The guy is bad news in my book. Are you sure it isn't XH or OW in disguise?? Surely XH knows the guy's name. So, maybe it isn't really your XBF, but someone trying to attack you in some freakish way? Well, I guess you could probably tell whether it was him from his page. I don't FB, so I don't know how that stuff works.
No, my ex h is not even a friend on FB so he can't see anything that is wriitten there. He has no idea who this ex boyfriend is since the relationships were a good 4-5 years apart. He never seemed too interested in my former relationships even back then.
Sad that ex boyfriend has to be this way. I may have gone 2 years without but I do not think that I have ever portrayed myself as desperate.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
It just started raining cats and dogs. I left my rain coat at home since I was running late looking for my glasses. So very soon I will get to see if I am made of sugar or not(or I could just be the wicked old witch in disguise) as some of you have alluded to in the past. Oh and no umbrella!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
So I didn't melt...maybe I am not so sweet after all but I am certainly not an evil witch! LOL
When I got on FB last night, I see that the friend that got ex BF and I together had hopped on with his 2 cents. Kind of went back and forth a bit and then ex BF comes on and said it was just a joke. Whatever. I sent a message to my friend that hopped on and he said it was probably just him digging at his ex wife but that he saw the way it looked and so said what he did.
Either way, that is hopefully put to rest. KU basketball tonight. Yippee!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
If I didn't have to rush home, pick up child, drive 35 minutes, get parked and find seats before game...yeah I would be. But I do wear my spirit beats and yell alot so I am sure to embarass my sweet 14 year old. Well we will see if he has what it takes to go to KU anyway.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
My son is mortified at football games with me. I'm one of those screaming, yelling, face painting, cheese head wearing (yes, I'm a Packers fan), idiots. It's too much fun! My son is starting to get into though so maybe he won't be scarred for life!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!