Do I tell him I'm turning the phone off, or just do it?
Tell all of your contacts. Either via email, a mass text msg, or whatever.
That way, it doesn't become an issue of whether or not you are trying to ignore him specifically.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement