Nah, if I have any hope, I have to do what you guys say. My biggest problem is I talk to my H waaaaay too much. I just can't figure out how to stop because of the kids. I can't ignore his texts, because he knows I always have my phone on me. He would see right through that.
So there's a good 180. Make yourself less available -- not just to him, but to everybody.
"I feel like having my phone on me all of the time makes me too accessible to the world, and it doesn't leave me time to focus on the things that are important to me. So I will be turning off my phone/setting it on silent mode more, and only replying to urgent messages immediately when I check them."
Do you realize that if you were to check your phone messages or email every 5 minutes, you would check your messages over 1,300 times in a week?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
