I think the IM response was a great 180. As you explained you are the Hot head, so not blowing it out of proportion, being calm and acting as if..was a good 180 for you to make...

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14