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Let's make it easier: Jerry was the guy I dated right before H. I got together with him this summer for drinks. He was the one who said he heard I got a bit wild. ( He told me that back when we met up but just has been bothering me.) Kevin is the guy I dated Senior year and then made the sex comment on FB.

Any of you guys want to tell me what that comment means?

I don't know if he will be at the game. Being hopeful on my part. I haven't told him I will be there. I suppose it wouldn't really matter when there are 16000+ people there too.

I have been reading about what happens to your soul between lives. Kind of interesting stuff.

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Thank you for clearing that up! Ok, I am horrible at interpreting stuff, but even to me it seems like he wants to hook up with you, don't you think? The amazing thing to me is he put it on your FB wall--not your style at all.

I have to admit to one weird thing. I still have this thing where when X comes in the room or whatever, we had an awards ceremony with a couple hundred people last week, I still noticed him right away and he was sitting towards the back. I wasn't looking for him, just happened. We used to have such a connection we would call each other at the same time and it wouldn't even ring once, weird stuff like that. So don't be surprised...


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Yeah, my xh and I always had that kind of connection too. We'd dial each other at the same moment, when one of us was in a room completely jam packed with people we still could find each other and I always got a prickling at the back of my neck when something bad or extremely adrenaline inducing was going on with him (he was a cop). I understand that connection.

I still think it's pretty strange that he would make that kind of comment on your wall. It's not as if he's a super close friend that could make those kind of comments off the cuff. Hmmmmm....


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He actually was in that group that showed up all at once on FB...my flings, former BF's and guys I was interested in. I really debated about making him a friend because our relationship didn't end on the best note. Then he asked about my parents and my brother and realized that he probably forgot how it ended or why.

I finally realize that not everyone has this super meomory that I do. Every little detail may not be so important. So I need to let some of that go.

No offence to my lovely women friends, I was hoping a guy might be able to clear that up, but then any opinion helps.

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Ewwww...

I'd interpret this as him being a:

CREEP = "I made a comment about that on my wall on FB and ex boyfriend from Senior year replies it is because I am having too much fun...like making love with ex. lol"

MANIPULATIVE CREEP = "I really debated about making him a friend because our relationship didn't end on the best note. Then he asked about my parents and my brother and realized that he probably forgot how it ended or why."

And, I'd be VERY surprised if he didn't recall the breakup, it is hardly a small detail...


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So glad I didn't take it that way just because I am a prude and have been out of the loop for 22 years.

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I thought Creep immediately, too.

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Gee, am I becoming a creep magnet??


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Perhaps your ex has been running his mouth off? Leaving this guy with an impression he's all too ready to say something about?

Something ain't right, either way.


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My ex H doesn't know this former boyfriend from Adam. Has never met him. It really shocked me what he wrote on my wall. I haven't spoken to this guy in like 27 years and he thinks I would think that was funny?

I guess he is hitting on me.


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