I agree you should state that you havent had an affair or cheated, but dont be surprised if thats treated with a bit of distrust, unfortunately in this day and age most splits are due to an affair taking place!
Wish I was 34 again I should be so lucky! Just take each day as it comes wondering about a fortnight away isnt good for you, unless of course you are planning a great birthday night for yourself regardless of what your W is doing then thats ok!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!