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Him spending the evening did not bother me - it was him changing the plan at 2am, AFTER I had relied on him to be there for the kids in the morning.


When you changed the plans we made and left in the middle of the night. I felt like you lied to me about your plans. If you continue to change our plans about who is watching the kids. I will just take the kids to my Moms.

"Let it go" isn't a solution.

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Because he is the calm one and I am the hot head


Perfect 180 - you be calm, relaxed, laid-back, "what me worry?" Let him have some worry for a change.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.