Thanks rabbit. I do plan on really hearing what she had to say, rather than just listening. It will be hard to hold back from defending myself, but I have to stay calm and understand the impact my actions have made on her. (I will defend myself if she accuses me of cheating, cause I never have and I never will)

I turn 34 in 2 weeks, so it will be interesting to see what happens then. Maybe I'm looking too far ahead and need to concentrate on now ?


Sydney, Australia
H: 34
W: 33
M: 11
s: 6
Asked for Divorce 12th Nov 2009