Just when I get frustrated about the fact that this has been going on for 12 months (the worst of it anyway), I decide I can deal with it because "it has been going on for 12 months" so why give up now???
Continuing to wait around seems fruitless due to the definition of insanity (doing same thing and expecting different result), but the only thing left to do different would be for us to S/D, which she claims she wants to do (still - same story for the past year).
She may be on the verge of leaving now, so as I stated there may be a break in the weather here.
Her birthday is this week. It will be interesting to see how it goes - I don't plan on doing anything out of the ordinary for our situation, which means basic acknowledgement and putting up a good front for the kids.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
