He had asked if he could spend the night at my condo with the kids instead of taking them to his mom's house and I agreed.
If something is bothering you it is your responsiblity to bring it up.
When you .... (insert problem behavior here), I felt ......(describe your feelings). In the future I would appreciate it if ........ (solution). If we can't agree on that then ......... (consequence).
This isn't a personal attack it's about a behavior that isn't healthy for your relationship.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
