hmmm.... So let me get this correctly here. You were 42 and she was 25 when this first started, the affair that is? I think the advice that any individual counselor or anyone on this board would say is that this "affair" is on it's way out. The foundation of this relationship was shaky to begin with. Why did you think you could have a long term relationship with someone this young? Surely, other people must have commented- friends, family, co-workers.
You moved to another to town to avoid problems I am guessing. But did you lose contact with your son also? Do you still contact him? To bring two kids into this relationship troubles me. What about them now?
If you want to be give answers and information on this message board you have to give "help" and info to others. I think you could give lots of insight to the women out there in newcomers who are desperately trying to figure out why there spouse left them for a 20 something woman.
"Help and be helped here"
Although-I really doubt this relationship can be turned around considering how it started.
Oh yeah, Karma's a b*tch ain't it.
What goes around comes around
You wouldn't have sex with your commonlaw wife and now how the tables have turned....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
